Does he like me or using me
So this is a weird one but please stick with me!
I’m F20, the guy I’m talking about he is m21!
We have had a very weird relationship for the last 11 months, we started seeing each other as fwb. When we first started seeing each other we would just smoke weed, talk and have sex.
He told me early on that he was done extremely dirty in his previous relationship hence why he doesn’t want anything serious (trust issues).
So I didn’t rlly open up to him abt much bcs he’s a f buddy rlly, and no point in telling him my whole life story if he isn’t gonna be around for long.
I ended up admitting that I caught feelings for him a few months after we met and wanted smthn serious but he claims the he still hasn’t healed from what his ex has done so he can’t get into smthn serious. So I told him that I can’t keep talking to him bcs I realised I wanted something serious!
This has happened I wanna say like at least 3 times, during those times we say hurtful things to each other but nothing extremely nasty and rude. Everytime one of us ends up leaving we just go back to each other! I’ve realised that I don’t want a relationship with anyone else unless it’s him
Now recently though I’ve seen a difference in his actions, he will come around and see me 9/10 times we end up smoking and spend hours on end talking abt the most random Shi. He also will help me with anything and offer without me asking, for example; yesterday night he wanted to hangout so he asked me what I was doing and I said cleaning and that if he’s bored he mind as well help me clean. His response; I can, what do you need help with”. He knows I love surfing and today he offered to take me surfing in the next few days, I didn’t ask him for that or mention surfing in the conversation. He takes me anywhere anytime too, like I will text him if I can get a lift to a certain place and he just tells me when he’s coming.
I’ve never been in a relationship before so Idk what are the early signs ig.