AITJ for confronting him after I saw my account logged in on a device I don’t own?
I’m 29M and I noticed this through a notification that didn’t make sense at first. I use an account that tracks login activity and shows which devices are currently connected. I check it occasionally, but not obsessively.
One night, I got an alert about a new login.The location was the same city, so it didn’t immediately look suspicious, but the device listed wasn’t mine. I only use my phone and my laptop. This one was a different model entirely.
At first I thought maybe it was a glitch or a misread, but when I checked the active sessions, that device was still logged in.So I logged everything out and changed my password.The next day, it happened again.Same type of device, same general location, new session.
At that point, I knew someone had access.I started thinking about where I might have logged in recently. The only time I used my account on another device was at a friend’s place, 30M, when I needed to quickly check something and used his computer.I logged out before leaving, or at least I thought I did.I went over to his place and asked if he noticed anything unusual with his system. He said no. I asked if my account was still logged in on his computer.He said it shouldn’t be.So I showed him the login activity.That’s when he got quiet.
After a bit of back-and-forth, he admitted he noticed my account was still accessible on his device and used it a couple of times because it was already there. He said he didn’t think it mattered since he didn’t change anything important.But he didn’t tell me. He just kept accessing it.I asked what exactly he did on my account. He said just browsing and checking things, nothing serious. But that wasn’t the point.He had access, knew it wasn’t his, and kept using it anyway.I told him that crossed a line. He said I was overreacting because it wasn’t like he hacked anything, it was just “left open.”I logged out all devices again and secured everything, but I also distanced myself from him after that.
Now he’s saying I’m making a big deal out of something that was my mistake for not logging out properly.But from my side, he knew it wasn’t his account and chose to keep using it.
So AITJ for confronting him and cutting him off after seeing my account active on a device I don’t own?
TL;DR: noticed my account logged in on an unknown device. turned out my friend kept accessing it after I used his computer once. confronted him and cut him off, now he says I overreacted.