How do you escape a rut when your partner doesn't want to do anything with you?
My partner (41M) doesn't ever want to be around me (38F) anymore. He tells me that's not true and that he loves me, but every single time I suggest doing ANYTHING together, he says he doesn't want to.
I don't want to force him to do something together that is supposed to be a way to genuinely reconnect, I just don't have answers.
For any of you out there that was like he was, is there any way to get us out of this funk? Being with someone who is completely okay with not saying anything to you for an entire day (zero speaking, if I don't start a conversation) is so emotionally exhausting. Any advice will be appreciated.
u/Spazzle17 — 5 days ago