Just had a messy public falling out with my sister
There have always been tensions between us. I’m the oldest by 3 years, we’re both in our 30s, she lives at home with her partner and our mom. I asked to do the same during a rough period and was essentially told no as she’d feel uncomfortable about sharing the space, despite my mom being fine with it. Just found out she hasn’t paid rent for the entire time she’s been there (7+ years). Told her how unfair that was and she blew up at me, saying I was ungrateful, demanding, blaming her for my life decisions (which I didn’t). Blamed me for not pandering to her untreated OCD and Autism (both of which I also have and she gives me no grace for). Also found out she’s been badmouthing me to our mutual friends and twisting my words in the process.
On top of that, I have to move out of my flat next month. My mom says it’s fine to move in with her for a bit, which of course now won’t be happening due to my sister’s crashout. I can’t afford a deposit for a new place.
Homemade scones with raspberry jam and slightly over whipped cream