Single and Poly
For context I’m a bi (30yo) latina and I’ve come to realize and accept that I’m poly for like 3 years now. It took leaving a relationship for me to really understand how important that is to me. And since that relationship, I’ve been in a relationship and have had lovers. Separately just for timeline context. And all of them ended at different points but ultimately for the same reason. Us not having the same views on long term love being poly versus monogamous. Even if we began with that as an initial convo and they seemed down. They ultimately changed their minds and or things just didn’t work out which is fine. But I’m having difficulty finding people who are also poly/queer to date. Where do people go to date poly folks outside of events and dating apps? I barely get to go to events cuz it never aligns with my schedule and is always some money to get in. On dating apps I’ve found “ENM couples” to talk to and turns out it was just the guys in the relationship trying to sell their relationship as open for the sake of just getting nudes and wanting to meet up alone without their partners which always made me uncomfortable. So I feel discouraged to take that route. What should I do at this point 😵💫