Am I wrong to be on Feeld
I’m a single 48F in a city and am having trouble connecting genuinely on Feeld. I have some kinks I love exploring but I’m not poly, nor into ONS. I’m looking to connect genuinely with somebody to explore those kinks instead of hopping from one date to another casually. The part I enjoy about feeld is that we can talk freely about sexual preferences compared to other apps. I’m pretty aware of my attachment style and enjoy connections over something casual and I truly believe that kink is more fun to explore with someone I feel safe with. When I voice that, majority of the men’s tones declines and being intuitive I don’t want to force the type of connections I’m seeking onto them because I’ve been questioned why I’m on feeld. Am I being unreasonable? Am I being too uptight? Part of the strong initial boundaries I communicate is because I don’t want to get hurt in the long run by hanging out with someone that has a different view towards the connection but I’m starting to feel like I’m declining any meetups because I get so turned off by the fact that the guys think it’s an easy bang because we met on this app but I’m also isolating myself from any potential anything to grow because I’m holding grounds to wanting something more meaningful than casual. Thoughts on this?