Husband has 0 sex drive now
Hello! So my husband has claimed that he has stopped porn 100%. While he was an addict (and I wasn't aware) he wanted sex all the time. I now know why, its because he was amped up from what he had watched for hours on end. Now that he says that he has stopped he has no sex drive anymore. It's so upsetting because I feel like all the attraction he had towards me for 20 years was fake and only happened because of photos of other women that aroused him.
Now that he doesnt have it, we have sex like 1-2 times per month versus several times per week loke before. I feel like these issues never end. On top of it the last 2 times he pursued sex he had "accidentally" clicked on a women's clothing site with scantily clad women and the other time he had received a spam email with sexual comments (from an old site he used to visit). I don't know what to think. I thought the opposite would happen. Its like these issues never go away and the lasting effects will be there forever. Anyone have the same issues ?