u/Softspiritysoul27

I created this account specifically for this. My boyfriend 32m and I have been together for a year, we have a very active sex life, and I am very attracted to him. But lately, I can only 'get there' if I stimulate myself mentally and create scenarios in my head scenarios where he usually isn't involved (no, I don’t think of anyone specific). Am I bad for this?

I find him very attractive and I love our sex life, and I orgasm every time we have sex, without exception…. but I have to create a fantasy in my head to make it happen. I feel a bit guilty about it and I wanted to know if this is normal.