Coworker Tribalism
It appears at my workplace that all of the servers find someone to all collectively ice out until they leave. And I am next. Why does this happen? How do I deal with this? I have been blocked on every social media platform by my coworkers despite not doing anything (to my knowledge at least?) and talked about behind my back when literally just a week ago, everything was fine after the departure of their last victim of sorts.
What the hell am I supposed to do? Restaurant I work at doesn’t have sections and relies on teamwork so i can’t just mind my own business, talking to them is crucial.
They have no reason to dislike me other than I am a little bit socially awkward as I am neurodivergent. I don’t know what to do but my anxiety is telling me to quit before it gets worse. Obviously I can’t do that, I need the money. Advice would be appreciated