u/Soccer-Plane-444

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10y Solopreneur is Burnt Out. Where the hell do I go from here?

I (37M) have been running a solo web design business for ~10 years. Was at a marketing agency for ~5 years before that (right out of college).

Early on, I was really driven & fulfilled by it. Building it, creating it, growing it etc. Working 6-7 days a week, completely locked in. Didn’t even feel like work basically ever lol.

My model was simple – build (or redesign) sites, then move them to a monthly retainer (hosting, security, support). The goal in my head was always ~40-60 clients at $150–200/mo.

  • Fast forward to now & that drive/spark is gone. I feel defeated. I've been at a glass ceiling of 25 clients.
  • Feeling deeply burnt out & honestly like my whole professional skillset is commoditized. There's a grief aspect to this that I wasn't able to build it to align with my vision.
  • Income is OK right now but ~40% of it comes from two bigger retainer clients & I know those won't last forever.
  • My main lead sources over the last couple years (for new builds/redesigns) have dried up & I didn’t realize how much I was relying on them.
  • I started a relationship coaching business 6mo ago that actually feels really aligned/energizing/exciting for me but not making real money yet.

So I’m in this weird spot...

The person I am today is not the one that started that business a decade ago. I've grown, changed, & evolved.

So, thinking longer-term, part of me is questioning if I go back to the 9-5 world to "reset" a bit...but I have no idea where I’d even fit in.

ADDING UPDATE NOTE HERE: someone in the comments mentioned my vibe is very startup-y & I didn’t even think about that. I'm intrigued with that space. Could fit me well – not as isolating as doing everything on my own while simultaneously not as rigid as a 9-5

I’ve never followed a traditional path/climbed the corporate ladder. Always followed my intuition & that led me to doing my own thing relatively early on. Before working remotely or being an entrepreneur was *the cool* thing to do.

I know I bring value to the world but it’s not super easy to explain or feels tangible. It’s more like I can walk into something & immediately see what’s off, what needs to change, where things aren’t aligned. It’s not “web design” or website/digital specific. It's bigger than that. I just don’t know what kind of job that would even translate to.

Curious if anyone else has been here (long-term self-employed to considering going back to a corporate job).

How did you figure out where you fit? And how did you explain your background in a way that actually made sense to employers?

Any thoughts/feelings/advice here is appreciated. Thank you so much for reading all of this 🙏 this has been weighing on my mind & heart.

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u/Soccer-Plane-444 — 1 day ago

💡 Most unique "outside the box" cold outreach idea?

I remember years ago (probably close to 10 years) listening to a podcast where a guy would send a full-on cake to his ideal clients/prospects. I don't remember the specifics but probably included some kind of note with it & a follow-up sequence. It worked well for him. For whatever reason, that idea has always stuck me & I loved how unique it was.

What's your most outside the box cold outreach idea (that you've tried or have heard of)?

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u/Soccer-Plane-444 — 6 days ago

Does Hinge Verification Matter?

How important is verification on Hinge? I've been on the app since before it was a thing so never thought twice but recently am noticing most of the women I'm looking at/swiping through are verified. Does this matter to you when you're on the app or deciding who to match with? I know we can all say "of course it does!" My gut says in theory it does but in practice, if someone really is interested/intrigued in your profile, it's not going to make or break matching/at least starting a convo. Interested in others thoughts. Thanks!

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u/Soccer-Plane-444 — 8 days ago