I was in 6 years relationship and she yesterday confsees that I'm too good and emotionally available guy and was too nice with her. She chose some fuckboy to do sexting and sharing nudes and blame me for being good. Hahah man and she said that guy got muscles and I was about to take her abroad. God help some women.
A close friend of mine is getting married soon in an arranged setup. Both are educated, and the girl is in her final semester of university. Before the wedding, I told him it would be good to talk openly about things like intimacy, health, and expectations so they are more comfortable with each other.
He said he did try. He asked his fiancée about basic women’s health topics, like ovulation and how it affects mood and energy. She told him she doesn’t really know what this is.
That honestly surprised me. I thought most people, especially someone studying at university, would at least know basic things about their own body. And now they are getting married in a few weeks.
Now I’m confused. Is this common in arranged marriages where these topics are not discussed? Or is it a general issue where many people, even educated women, don’t learn about their own bodies properly?
I also want to understand how a man should handle this. If his partner doesn’t know these things, how should he talk about them respectfully without making her uncomfortable? For women here, what would you prefer? How can a man support or guide his partner in learning these things without sounding rude or awkward?
People who lost their father or mother at a young age or during childhood, how did your life change after that? And how did people, especially your family, treat you afterward?
I’m going through a hard time. I lost my father four years ago, and since then things have changed a lot. Instead of support, many relatives, especially my own uncle and taya, have been harder on us. Today it hit me badly and I just broke down.
I guess I just needed to let it out. But I also want to ask, did anyone here have good uncles or family members who supported you? How did they treat you after your loss?