Are my rules too much?
So my partner and I were actively looking for another couple. We have sorta stopped for the moment due to our last encounter, for context we originally met this couple at a porn theater, and my partner and I were having sex, the other couple came up very respectfully and my lady enjoyed his lady. My partner rode me while they kissed and played with breasts, nothing crazy. We exchanged numbers and that was that. While we were texting a few days later we had great chemistry and vibes. Talks of full swap and everything which we were totally comfortable with. The topic of rules came up and my partner wants a clean test before preforming oral on anyone. Which I understand and respect. My only 2 rules were I dont want another man kissing her on the mouth, and I dont want another man in her raw. We are fairly new to this lifestyle so I genuinely ask, is our rules like weird? Clean test shouldn't be an issue for anyone IMO and if it is red flag. But is my kissing rule unfair? Or not wanting other men inside my woman raw? Im already sharing her i think asking for a condom is like nothing. Idk just curious if this normal lol this is like our 5th couple talking too but the furthest we've gone with anyone