u/Slow_Topic_6768

Hey I posted her about a week ago about how terrible my dating experiences have been, and soo many kind women commented nice and funny things lol so I thought. Since dating apps kinda suck why don't I try my luck here ?? Maybe??

Im 24 fem . I am originally from the states but I haven't been back since 2019. I have lived in Mexico for 5 years most recently Rwanda going on 3, but plan to return back to Mexico soon, maybe permanently. I have a full time job, I own a couple of business and I am currently in school to get my ACCA (accounting). I sound super busy , I am but I am very good at time management so I will always have time to call or message.

I'm a very down to earth person in my opinion. I love nature and animals. I enjoy anime and movies. Ive recently taken up reading (horror is my fav genre) , pottery, gardening and painting. I think I'm kinda funny but more unintentionally lmao so , it comes off awkward. I also adore my family. We are close and a calm family that genuinely just enjoys a good time. I'm a no drama person and so are they.

I'm 5'9 , athletic build and I recently got micro-locs which honestly still just like like my normal afro. Also a feature I often forget about it I have a front tooth gap. Oh .. imma Aries 🐏 . I can share a picture of myself if you message me. So you don't have to use your imagination for to long.

I'm looking for a fem or stem. We don't have to be the same at all but I would love for you to have morals , kind , and some goals in life . Even if they are small. 22-28 yrs old in my preference, I can go a bit higher though.

Also , I'm sorry I'm extremely allergic to cats. I feel like that a deal breaker for some women.. understandable. Please argue with God and genetics about it for me

Yall I'm just tired. Being a Black lesbian with standards is HARD.

To give back story I'm a recent 24 year old (Aries ♈ baby) and I am a black American that has moved from New Jerseys to Georgia to Mexico to Rwanda Africa which is where I'm currently at now. My ex girlfriends have been Mexican and Burundian (One is a current crack head and the other she is just confused about her sexuality). Now, I myself own a business , I am currently in school, and have a regular 9-5. I'm extremely close to my family and love just doing anything interesting. I consider myself to be hella open minded and down to earth.

Here's the problem. All I attract is people who are , not to be mean, but female bums. I recently went on a date with a girl I met on HER. We went to see JJK and she left mid movie to smoke or what ever. She didn't even come back , I went to go find her after the movie was over cause she left her purse with me an everything (we only just met 2 days ago). Anyways, we sit and talk in a park ...she 31 years old (lied about her age, online said 26) then she said she had a boyfriend that paid for her life but she broke up with him cause she's gay ..ok. She then proceeds to tell me she loves c*ke 🙃😬 and can't wait to try other stuff ..JUMP SCARE excuse moi?!?!? I don't do drugs.

Another girl I was with she NEVER wanted to leave her house. And she constantly told me that as a black woman I shouldn't care about slavery to much because it doesn't effect us now ........this hoe is African. 😑

Everyone else in between has either been drug addicts orrr just sucks as a person .

Why can't I find any decent, kind.l, lesbians???? Are my standards to high or what?!? I find myself to be attractive from based on all of my friends telling me so. Am I just doing sum wrong or what???