u/SimpleAd8785

in my late 20s and i just let my parents down by revealing a big secret. i’ve been in debt and trying to fix it on my own and im facing the reality that i need their help. they were hurt for sure but im just wondering am i really stupid that ive been an adult for a decade and i still find new ways to hurt my parents? even though i try really hard to grow and mature and develop i feel like i just an outlier and my mistakes are worse than everyone else’s.