pregnant but no one is happy or congratulating me.
to start out i’m 22, my husband will be 23 in this month. we live on our own and have been married for over a year. we have our own vehicles and we both have jobs. we don’t have alot of money as we’re still in our studies but we do alright. we recently found out i was pregnant. i have told a total of 6 people and no one seems happy for me. i’m quite upset by this because everyone was jumping for joy when my cousin and my sister got pregnant. maybe they don’t want another baby in the family soon but it’s bothering me. neither my sister or my cousin was married and was still living at home when they were pregnant and gave birth. they were 20 when they found out, and both were unemployed. my cousin was in college but dropped out immediately. my sister didn’t have her license and still hasn’t gotten it. i’m not saying they did it the “wrong” way. i just feel like i’m more “ready” for a baby than they were. so i don’t understand why my family and friends seem so shocked. i’m feeling very low. if i could get some advice and congratulations that would be nice :’).