Some people here just do it to themselves
And I don't mean everyone, or even most, but my god some people here are actively fucking over their own lives and blaming everyone else.
No job, out of shape, no social skills, dont want to leave the house but also expect to have girls throwing themselves at them and are surprised they are a still a virgin. The very epitome of the "I've tried nothing, and Im all out of ideas!" meme.
Then they come on here crying about teenage love as a 30 year old man, or being 5'9 (average male height btw) and expect us to feel sorry for them. Then downvote the hell out of you when you tell them to get a fucking grip.
If I was a girl and I saw you coming, I'd run the other way too. No one wants to be around a loser who thinks like this, this kinda person would only fuck up your life and bring no positive value to you whatsoever.
Only thing I can say is to the people who don't have this mindset and actually want to better themselves and find fulfillment, dont spend too much time around these people online or otherwise because their mentality will seep into you and sooner or later you will end up thinking like them, which is basically a death sentence.