How do you work on not caring about what other people think ?
I know this is probably (potentially) such a loaded question with multiple avenues to address and such but I just had to ask because I’ve been feeling down about it. I’ve always been a people pleaser . Always wanted to put my best self forward , make only good impressions and have people think kindly of me . It feels very “pick me “ I know , it irritates me to no end . But when I let loose and potentially embarrass myself or make people annoyed , oh it takes a toll on me for a long time (happened just recently with a friend). And the thing is I give people grace with it’s the other way around but never to myself . How do I fix that ? What mindset should I have? I’m just tired of being trapped inside my head all the time by this . Thanks in advance!