im petty and i don't know what to feel about it
context: got in ucla, uc berkeley and upenn.
unfortunately i can't go this fall (im really sad abt it) bcs of personal reasons. I have this classmate of mine's who got in uc b and ucla, waitlisted at cornell + penn, and she feels like it's not enough for her. she wants to go ivy, and keeps shatting on uc b. now that she's heard of me being unable to go, she's vying for my spot.
it's not even the first time she took the same things as me. when i wanted cornell, she suddenly made it her dream school. once i got in penn, she wanted penn.
to put salt in the wound, she doesn't play fair. she lied about 80% of her CA, used an expensive af counselor to make up her essays and write it for her. she also once broke in a teacher's class to steal documents, got suspended, but the school wrote her off. because of that, i was planning to not withdraw my penn acceptance until the very last day.
but when i was looking at the posts here, i thought about my withdrawal actually making a GENUINE candidate have their deserved spot. so now, i'm a bit conflicted.
just wanted to get this off my chest lol
EDIT: even if i defer, unfortunately i can't go there still :(