u/Significant-End9922

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Am I no longer an asexual??

I need some advice. I've been a strict sex-repulsed asexual my entire life (I'm 19 though, so a very short life), but some months ago I met a person who now makes me feel different. He accepted my asexuality and didn't try to change me. We wanted a relationship so we spoke openly about these things and him liking sexual things. But I can't understand what has happened to me because suddenly sexual things don't seem scary nor disgusting anymore. With him it feels safe and just deep love. Am I actually a demisexual and I just needed a deep connection?? I'm so confused!!! What is happening to me?? I do feel attracted to him, but not exactly in a sexual way. I still am quite against the whole idea of sex, but sexual things from love and connection don't seem so bad anymore... .

Edit: I don't know if it matters but I'm a girl.

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u/Significant-End9922 — 2 days ago