u/Sightless-Nostrill

Hi everyone,

Newborn here from a beautiful daughter of 12 weeks.

I've noticed over the weekend that my patience is gone when my daughter cries at night. There are times i want to throw her away into a pillow.

I know, i am ashamed of myself, and want to do the best as i can. But sometimes she cries so loud and high, i get a ringing in my ears. I've noticed my head throbs sometimes minutes after she stopped.

sometimes i also feel neglected by my partner, but he does a great job during the day and in the weekends. At night i take the shift because he has to go to work. And i dont want to burden him because of his busy job.

Do you have any tips so i can keep my patience?