Please settle a debate for me - sex on your period
I've only had 2 girlfriends ever (came out late). My first was bi, we were together for many years. When one/both of us were on our period we wouldn't do oral but would touch like usual. I know some people will do oral then, just not for me personally and she felt the same.
My second (lesbian) was extremely short lived and tbh she's a very odd person overall but that's a long story. One time I was on my period and she went and put on a blue surgical glove, and then touched me. I didn't know what to say so didn't say no. Afterwards I joked about it and she acted like it was normal. I talked about it with ex #1 (like true lesbians we are still close friends) and she was blown away and baffled. Said she has never ever heard of that and it's wild. I stayed FWB for a little bit with ex #2 but cancelled on hanging out because I had my period. She asked for details and I told her that I felt the glove was weird as hell and didn't want to do that again! When she was on her period I touched her like usual. I think I would have felt differently if we had a discussion about it or she asked me first instead of just doing it. She told me that it's a common lesbian thing and that I don't know about it because I haven't been with enough lesbians.
Please help me out here: wearing a glove because your girl is on her period...is this actually common practice?