Reasons you pass on guys
I was having a discussion recently about vetting couples and single guys online and the reasons why we might choose to not pursue or pass on a couple’s or single guy’s profile. I thought it would be interesting to here from others. A few questions we thought could give some insights:
Who does most of the vetting of couples online? Husband, Wife, or both?
When reviewing a couple’s profile and choosing to pass on them, how often is that because of man vs the woman? Will you compromise and accept a sub par guy with a hot wife or even cross into “take one for the team” territory?
What are specific metrics you filter out of search results or will decline a man on? Things like height, age, smoking, sexuality, etc?
After filtering above, when deciding against a couple’s or single guys profile because of the man, what are the most common reasons?
What are the most common reasons that you’d say are fixable (eg body composition, wardrobe, bad pictures, etc) vs not fixable (eg height, age, balding, race, genetics, etc)
For those that pursue solo guys, does relationship status matter? Do you prefer single guys over married guys? Do you automatically eliminate married guys even with a hall pass?
Are there any factors that might cause you to compromise on the above?