u/Several-Argument7352

Assalamualaikum Everyone, I wanted to know is it permissible to text your fiance before the marriage.

Context: we're engaged and getting married in 4 months, we haven't talked in person or talked in call but I asked for her number and got it with the permission of their parents and we're texting now for the past 1 week. I initially got the number with the intention of getting to know her and learn more about her but when we first started texting it was kinda awkward for both of us as we didn't know what to ask each other as we talked more the questions came naturally and alhamdulillah we clicked and we both feel we're compatible with eachother. we talk with respect and keep boundaries no flirting or anything like that but we do talk about our hobbies and joke over texts. but yesterday she asked Don't you think we need an adult monitering our conversation since we're still non mahram basically highlighted the joking and talking comfortably and said it would be safe if we have an mahram monitering. so i just wanted to know how i should handle this and wanted to know what's permissible in the situation.