Generally happily married but I have a crush, is that normal?
Ive been married for 2 years to a nice guy that I plan on being with forever. And i work at the call center with a credit union, and I work from home, it’s super nice!
Anyway, I was moved to a different team (its after an evaluation period and they make small rearrangements usually), and someone on this team is SO cute. They are my classic type, but they also just have a really refreshing work attitude. Would I ever pursue it? Hell no! I love my husband! Does this random other person that I don’t know well at all make my heart race? Yes. Butterflies? Yes. Do I sometimes stare at him during our team meetings? Yes. But am I a bad person? Or like…how do I understand this??
My marriage is also doing pretty well. We fight sometimes but we resolve conflict and communicate well. But we also both have sort of settled into our home lives and don’t “do” much in the way of dates and activities. But we’re also saving up.
Help me, internet strangers!