My husband treats me weirdly around his friends
I know I would get labelled as the typical nagging “wife” for this kind of complaint. My husband tends to think very “bigly” of his friends which is ofc healthy and warranted but in front of them treats me more “smally” especially his female ones.
I know he doesn’t mean it badly, he doesn’t really do anything intentionally and I wish I knew why it irritates me so much.
I generally see guys walking with their wives/girlfriends even in groups. In a group, my husband will really never walk with me. He’s a bit of a social butterfly. It makes him happy to just be in the line of 3 and let me walk ahead alone or to look around and ask everyone where to eat but complete look away from where I am.
Honestly it wouldn’t even bother me if he just didn’t do it with his female friends. That itches me the wrong way. Mostly because I love to spoil the guy, he’s really my sweetheart and I love to let him choose where we eat, what activity we do, what we eat etc etc etc. But then here come his friends and now suddenly he’s willing to make all the accommodations in the world for them 😡
I have tried talking to him about it but all it’s done is make him walk with me regularly for 1 min o it of every 10 mins so that “I don’t create a fuss” lol.
This was really a very long end of day rant. I am quite exhausted. I don’t see this man changing tbh but he has several amazing qualities so I’m just going to have to find a way to rant about it and let it go.
I can’t thank you enough for giving me this much needed space to express how I feel.