u/Secure-Attitude7398

For context, i am in a group of 6 friends (me included in the 6), i would say im the one that got everybody together and like as good friends. That was in 7th grade. In my country, the schools are from 1st-7th, 8th-10th, 11th-13th. Im now in 10th grade (newly 16 years) and i feel like 2 guys in our group have started distancing themselves from me.

I have noticed that towards the end of 9th grade and start of 10th grade, one of my friends started talking less to me, almost trying to like ignore me. When school is over, the same friend doesnt mind to go with me from school, but we dont really talk much when going home. I have tried asking him questions before, but he always answers with an answer that wont hold up the conversation. This same friend got asked by some girls in class if me and him are even best friends, and he took some time before answering, and still did not say yes. This happened while i was listening and while he was looking me in my eyes. He tried to laugh it off, so did i but i did not forget this at all. This happened around a month ago. I also tried to be nice and engage a bit with him today, sent him a video that i know he would laugh at, just left me on read.

Another friend of mine, also tries to somewhat ignore me, talks to me sometimes and does start conversations at school, but not like he did before. At the same time, this friend does talk to me more than the other friend. We both like working out, so we sometimes talk about that, that happens around once or twice a week.

The 2 i have now mentioned are very good friends among eachother, they hang out very often and go talk alone sometimes when the group is talking together. I used to hang out with these guys sometimes, play games, but now i barely have contact with them outside of school. I dont know what i have done wrong.

Since late 8th grade, i have tried to focus alot on my sport, cause i am trying to go pro. Since that, i have not been really invited to any events that the whole group has been a part of. I was once at practice, while the whole group was at a sports bar watching a football match. If i was invited, i would have skipped the practice and came to spend time with them. At this point, i feel like i have made better friends through my sport in some years than i have at school, even though i have been with these guys for 9 years now.

For next year, we switch schools from the current one. I am signed up to the school with the 2 guys i just talked about, and one other guy that i am going to a concert with, later on in the year. I kind of regret signing up for the school that i did sign up for, and kind of wish that i signed up with the other 2 guys instead, cause i feel like i can start conversations with them much easier than the rest of the group.

What am i supposed to do in this situation?
I apologise if something is not clear, but just ask if there are any questions about what i have written or in general.

For context, i am in a group of 6 friends (me included in the 6), i would say im the one that got everybody together and like as good friends. That was in 7th grade. In my country, the schools are from 1st-7th, 8th-10th, 11th-13th. Im now in 10th grade (newly 16 years) and i feel like 2 guys in our group have started distancing themselves from me.

I have noticed that towards the end of 9th grade and start of 10th grade, one of my friends started talking less to me, almost trying to like ignore me. When school is over, the same friend doesnt mind to go with me from school, but we dont really talk much when going home. I have tried asking him questions before, but he always answers with an answer that wont hold up the conversation. This same friend got asked by some girls in class if me and him are even best friends, and he took some time before answering, and still did not say yes. This happened while i was listening and while he was looking me in my eyes. He tried to laugh it off, so did i but i did not forget this at all. This happened around a month ago. I also tried to be nice and engage a bit with him today, sent him a video that i know he would laugh at, just left me on read.

Another friend of mine, also tries to somewhat ignore me, talks to me sometimes and does start conversations at school, but not like he did before. At the same time, this friend does talk to me more than the other friend. We both like working out, so we sometimes talk about that, that happens around once or twice a week.

The 2 i have now mentioned are very good friends among eachother, they hang out very often and go talk alone sometimes when the group is talking together. I used to hang out with these guys sometimes, play games, but now i barely have contact with them outside of school. I dont know what i have done wrong.

Since late 8th grade, i have tried to focus alot on my sport, cause i am trying to go pro. Since that, i have not been really invited to any events that the whole group has been a part of. I was once at practice, while the whole group was at a sports bar watching a football match. If i was invited, i would have skipped the practice and came to spend time with them. At this point, i feel like i have made better friends through my sport in some years than i have at school, even though i have been with these guys for 9 years now.

For next year, we switch schools from the current one. I am signed up to the school with the 2 guys i just talked about, and one other guy that i am going to a concert with, later on in the year. I kind of regret signing up for the school that i did sign up for, and kind of wish that i signed up with the other 2 guys instead, cause i feel like i can start conversations with them much easier than the rest of the group.

What am i supposed to do in this situation?
I apologise if something is not clear, but just ask if there are any questions about what i have written or in general.