I [18M] am questioning my GF [18F]
This is an online relationship. I think she's been playing with me for the last few months. A while back when we got back together (we were together a while before but split up but we talked and she was with someone else named "Owen". Remember that name for later. but decided to split up with them because she said "He reminded me of you" and wanted to get back together about 2 days later)
She said she had lived nearby but miraculously she said she was moving back to mandan (Where she lived beforehand) which was weird but I didn't pay it much mind. A while after she left for awhile (no text or calls) and her "brother" who never talks on the phone and just texts (according to her he had done something that makes him unable to talk on the phone which is weird. He can't talk but can text?) saying she was in the hospital her lung collapsed. He was telling me she wasn't doing well and was knocked out. Awhile after she randomly gets on the phone for a while. After that she got out of the hospital ordinarily fast (within the same night-next morning).
About 2-4 days later she was apparently in the hospital again for "Cutting her stomach open" and the stomach acid and everything came out. Her brother texted me just like last time saying "They said she's not gonna make it" telling me all of those traumatic things that I wasn't prepared for. and yet again she randomly wakes up coughing and trying to speak and later on sounds fine. Apparently she got her stomach stitched and is basically fine. She's also being shady because she claimed she gave her discord account to her brother to match with his GF even though her brother said he doesn't date people anymore because of something that happened + It's the female part of the matching pfp. That's a little bit weird isn't it? And the claim changed to "I'm just wearing it because it looked cute and Im not matching with anyone except you" and yesterday she sent me this entire text of why she's been dry recently here's the text
"the reason I haven’t been answering a ton lately or completely ignoring you isn't because of you, or because I’m falling out of love or anything related to that. ( the discord thing i did redownload it and just used the pfp bc I thought it was cute i aint matching with nobody unless you wanna match ) but anyway, i wanted to just say it’s because of everything thats going on around me right now, I feel disconnected from myself as if someone else is controlling me, ive pushed people away again, im doing unnecessary drugs that make me feel shitty after like an hour or so, im drinking, and everything is crumbling around me. I keep trying to push you away to because of how im distancing myself from others unintentionally. I lost my niece, I lost my service cat, I am gonna have to go back into school which we both know how I am around people, my grades are dropping, i can’t see my father, my stomach has been hurting and killing me. and I haven’t ate for almost two days because of this. im unintentionally ignoring my family as well, I haven’t even had the amount of energy to shower. it got to the point I had to crawl to my living room because of lack of so much water I could barley walk. ive been having consistent nightmares, and sleep paralysis, and now I just physically cant sleep at all, my room is a disaster. and overall it’s just a lot, and now it’s just gotten to the point I just want to lay down constantly and do nothing. I don’t want to not talk to you, but anytime I look at my phone my eyes and head hurts and I wanna sleep constantly. I wish I could communicate this better with you so you understood better but right now this is best I could do. im sorry. you don’t have to worry about it i plan to actually do something but right now it’s just a shit show and im sorry im hurting you in the process."
I'm not saying everything she says is a lie but there's just too many inconsistenties and coincidences
And the name Owen popped up today on a call with her and her younger brother.