Father daughter dance help
Hi!!
My dad is in a wheelchair, he had a stroke when I was 11, so he’s been like that for a long time, I’ll be 27 at my wedding.
He also is pretty neurologically disabled, ie: doesn’t really laugh, smile, express much, converse very well, etc. anywho lol I am absolutely not wanting to do a father daughter dance where I just spin his wheelchair around, I was thinking of doing a “family dance” or moment, with my mom, my dad, and twin sister.
Since my dad’s stroke and disability has impacted all of us and made us very close, and I think it’d be less awkward then me just spinning him around or whatever.
Was thinking we’d play like 30 seconds of a song and us 4 would all be on the dance floor together, maybe just like hold hands or kind of huddle around my dad god I cringe thinking about it honestly I know it’ll be a sweet moment and I want to do something to honor my parents and everything but I’m just having trouble envisioning it…also like not every guest at the wedding is gonna know the whole backstory of it all (ie: grooms extended family, some of our adult friends, etc). Don’t want to make it like a sad/pity moment either.
Does anyone have any ideas, or any similar experiences and would be willing to share something they did, or saw someone do at a wedding before? Thanks <3