u/Salty_Broccoli_6152

i'm kinda dying from period cramps here. my mom won't take me to the doctor because "baba ko kiya bolun gi k kahan le k jaa rahi hun??" yeah, it's those kind of parents. i love my brother, he made me haldi-dhaniya doodh and i'm not hyperventilating and sweating profusely anymore but it's still hard to breathe. my organs feel like they're being clawed at with every breath i take, my muscles as if being wrung like laundry, my back is literally throbbing and i can't stop crying. please share any and all advice, remedies or anything that has helped you. i'm so sick and tired of this, it's so unfair, i hate everything and everyone

basically the title. i know nothing about gaming but i have seen and heard that it tends to be an expensive hobby so i'm wondering how you afford your equipment/set up/devices/subscriptions whatever they're called, no offense or disrespect, i'm illiterate in this regard

serious jaghon pay he hansi kiyun aati hai??

viva ho

ya phir presentation

daant pad rai ho

JANAZA-

istg ik it's baddddd but one look at someone else trynna hold it in, toh apni bhi nikal jaati hai. boht side eyes milti hain, zor zor ki waali aati hai na nonchalant aati bhi nai hai, eyewatering, stomach twisting type😔☝️

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how many of you break cultural stereotypes, norms and biddah practiced under the guise of islam, deeply rooted in our society? how many of you know it's wrong but don't speak up fearing consequences + what and how severe might those consequences be? and how many of you...agree with them?

i'm talking:

knowing dowry is lanat and maybe not wanting it but still accepting it

keeping quran overhead during rukhsati

preferring(demanding, even) boys over girls from pregnant women?

letting women work and not taking their earnings, or applying double pressure, like *i've allowed you to work but you better not compromise cooking and cleaning*

open bodyshaming of literal boys and girls at the hands of aunties imposing their opinions(very wrong opinions, e.g, thora mota ho gya, boht 0atli ho gai, zyada khaati hai, kaala ho gya, shaadi aur bachon k baad toh zindagi sanwar jaati hai aur yehi aurat ka maqsad hota hai, meanwhile they themselves are so emotionally and verbally, if not physically abusive, to their children.) i'll never undrstand the double standards

thinking educating women and girls is creating fahashi, or that even giving them permission is an ehsaan, conveniently forgetting that seeking knowledge is a FARD on ALL muslims. not a right. not a privilege. not a choice. A FARD.

so much pressure on girl's family for everything to be tip top

and so much pressure on the guy himself too

how many of you just want a nikkah in a masjid in presence of immediate family, aesthetic pinterest bhaag-k-shaadi-core pictures, icecream or gol gappay with the girl/guy who will hold you in your happiest and worst moments of life, and then walima for the phuppo or khalu jin k mun phool jaatay hain

how many of you call out that uncle who gives off 'duniya mein saaray jahanami hain, jannat mein toh sirf mein jaun ga' and his comments of 'namaz ghalat hai tumari, roza ghalat rakha hai, saans ghalat le rahe ho, aise nai karte mein jo kar raha hun aise karte hain kiyun k mein toh kabhi ghalat ho he nai sakta, hadees? reference? source? wo kiya hota hai? tum mujhe ghalat bol rahe ho? badtameez! jahanami! astaghfirulla astaghfirullah!'

and that BUZURG ne kaha tha k aurat k naseeb se rizq aur mard k naseeb se aulad hoti hai. aunty. uncle. please. khuda ka khauf karen. i'm officially the badtameezest thing they've come across, and honestly, i refuse to be an accomplice in their bullshit.

there's alot more not in my mind rn but do share your thoughts

Title. What kind of stuff is your responsibility arpund the house? How are the chores divided?

Upvote please(sorry if it sounds desperate)

Thankyou<3

Hi. New here. Wanted to ask those who got in or scored big in their nets, was it worth it? I see people miserable everywhere. Nust, fast, anywhere. I'm not very keen on getting into nust bcz i don't think my father will be able to afford it anyway so i think it'll be for the best if i just don't get in. Ironic, i think i'm delusional, since i've been fckin up my grades these past couple years thanks to some mental health issues. But either way, do you think you're happy in there?