Hi, I have been with my boyfriend now for nearly 3 months. We have an amazing relationship and he is truly the most amazing person I have ever been with. I could not ask for a better boyfriend. I just hate his job 🤣. He’s in the army and he warned me that it could be hard before we got together but I thought I really like him and surely it can’t be that hard. He goes away for training sometimes which is ok when we can still message and FaceTime but the times that we can go days on end speak at all breaks me. I’ve been diagnosed with anxiety from a young child and honestly I’ve not experienced anxiety like this in a long time. The idea of just being away from him and not being able to speak to him makes me feel unwell.
I don’t know what to do about it. No part of me wants to break up with him over this because it feels stupid to let someone so perfect go but also I don’t know what to do with myself when he’s gone. Has anyone else experienced this? Am I actually just over dramatic 🤣? Maybe I’ll get used to it with time but it doesn’t feel like it. The idea of being with him for years and doing this regularly does not sit right with me and I don’t know if I could do it for a long period of time. Any advice would be appreciated:).