I am sad I wasn't invited to a relative's wedding. The only family she invited were her siblings and parents, four people. No aunts and uncles, no cousins, nieces, nephews, or grandparents from either of her sides.
She said it was a small wedding and was sorry she couldn't invite everyone. I wish she had maintained the fiction that size was the issue.
Now she is posting pictures of the beautiful wedding with her 8 bridesmaids. Lovely group shots that show 75-100 people, including at least a dozen young children. I genuinely don't know how to process that she would invite an 8 year old, but not her grandma (not me).
I gave the most generous monetary gift I have ever given, because it has made me reevaluate my relationship with her, and it will probably be the last gift I give her.