u/Rnl8866

I posted before that ever since I got divorced something happens to me every 18 months. Well, in March which was the 18 month mark I missed my period (I’m very regular) and it’s bc something is wrong with my liver.

I think my ex and his mom did something to me. But also I can’t help but think it’s my SIL and my brother bc of the evil stuff they’ve said to me. One in particular saying I’ll never be a mom (I’ve always wanted a bunch of kids) and they repeat this often.

Or it could be all of them.

I did look into the astrology and birth chart aspect and I don’t believe in it.

I don’t drink. Never smoked. I don’t eat very healthy especially the last 3 years.

I have 3x the normal liver enzymes amount. How do I push for imaging? My mom died of ovarian cancer and her doctor ignored her symptoms that she would tell him about. If he listened, she’d still be here today.

I’m worried for myself now. My doctor thinks it’s stress and bad eating habits but I want to be sure. I do have insurance.

Thanks.

I’m 40F

Didn’t get my period in March or April. My period is normally like clockwork. Don’t have any symptoms of perimenopause.

Lab work - hormones normal. I know this isn’t set in stone.

.4% away from being diabetic
Triple the normal range for liver enzymes
High cholesterol
High bp almost to hypertension level 3

Under massive amounts of stress for the past 3 years due to getting injured in car accidents. Rear ended both times, mobility is limited. Cooking and grocery shopping are hard so I mainly eat out. I’ve been living with a broken back for 3 years. I also have trigeminal neuralgia which my doctor thinks is due to stress. It got so bad in February, I couldn’t sleep bc my cheek kept getting electrocuted randomly. Went away for a few weeks but now it’s back.

Now I’m more stressed out due to loss of period, liver issues, etc. Idk what to do. I try to alleviate the stress but bc of the car accidents, I encountered a lot of financial issues which causes stress.

Prior to accidents, I rarely ate fast food especially McDonalds which I never ate. I rarely did Uber Eats. For the past 3 years, I feel like all I eat is fast food or get deals on Uber Eats.

I also have adhd and normally take adderall. But in February, when my sleep schedule flipped bc of the trigeminal neuralgia, I stopped taking adderall. Since Feb, I have not been able to fix my sleep schedule. I have a lot of stress about the future and also bc my broken back has been progressively getting worse, it’s been harder to find a good sleeping position. I also need a new mattress.

Edit: I’m also obese obviously. I gained 50 lbs from steroid use in the Feb to April 2025 timeframe. I’m down by ~20 ish lbs now.

I’ve been under major chronic stress and chronic back pain that have both gotten worse and worse over the past 3 years. January started off with what felt like a sting. By mid February it was full on face taser mode. It was affecting my sleep and causing more stress. Then it started feeling like a sensation on my cheek instead of electrical shocks. Then it went away. Now I’m under some more stress and it’s come back as that tingling sensation and I’m worried it’ll be full blown face taser again. That was the absolute worst.

Idk if this is stress related. I’m grinding my teeth and clenching my jaw a lot bc of the stress.

Edit: I also have high bp close to hypertension 3. I think bc of the stress.