u/RevolutionaryHall214

I'm 32 going to be 33 in October , I have an amazing loving dad he was tough on me and beat the crap out of me as a kid but it was because he was a Vietnam vet and still struggled a lot so he was a drunk (he's changed a lot doesn't drink and is the best father and grandfather ever) I bring this up because I was talking to a friend earlier and she acted like it wasn't okay Obviously it's not okay to drink and drive but I never thought about it a lot , she was triggered I guess when I said he used to drink and drive along the side of canals with me on the side of the water , I was just so used to him picking me up from school with a beer I'm not traumatized by it but I was wondering if anyone else grew up like this? Parents drinking and driving with you.

Have you guys ever had actual regular cake for your birthday? Like I was thinking about buying a slice of cheese cake from the cheesecake factory I haven't had it since before I was diabetic .. probably 11 years ago maybe I'm not to sure so I was wondering has anybody ever done this and how did you feel after?