u/Renaius

So I (39M) am sure I'm not alone in this; I don't know how to tell someone when I'm interested. Poly life is great, but how do you want someone to tell you that they're interested in you? I know that I need directness, I can't just be left to my own devices because I'll never figure it out, but it seems like that throws most people off! But just asking them out has always felt awkward and forced to me, especially since it can still leave ambiguity. So, fellow polyams of all genders and neurotypes, To ask again....how?

Edit: I currently have two partners, each of whom has at least one other