In 2026 what is the process? they mentioned each person should follow their individual checklist and bring the necessary docs but they haven't given anything , but right now in April or May 2026, what all docs did you guys take with you? And Im also unable to download the videx application, so there was no option to download, and now when I click print it doesnt show the application form just the screen? What did the recent applications look like, any insights would be really helpful. Mine is this week

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whats wrong with my career? Offers come through, and nothing stayed

Serious question: Has anyone with a Saturn-heavy chart or a challenging Lagna lord experienced career delays lasting 4-6 years? It seems exceptionally long to be unemployed for that duration.

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Hello I am 27 now, rahu MD started when i was 13. My life has not been normal - I suffered with CPTSD since 13 and faced immense suffering since the past 5 years. Abuse, bullying, harrasment at workplace, financial harships going days without having money to afford a water bottle, having severe chronic pain and cognitive issues. Lost my father, lost my 1st job in 2 days. Lost 2nd offer and 3rd offers and I quit the 4th one for my mom.

I lost my job, visa, and the guy I hope to date, I never told him because I was greiving, now he's married too, my career is a mess. People atleast have some type of support whether family, institutional or systems. I don't have any not a single person in my life? First of all will I forever be alone and second does my chart show that I was meant to suffer? I ofc couldnt type the whole history, I cant. But i WANT TO KNOW, IF I WILL BE SUCCESSFUL?

I graduated in 2022, and im still with no job. My classmates and friends and juniors all of them have gotten jobs, moved, visas finalized, marriages and promotions. I don't if God exists, but feels like if he does, he hates me. I cant even describe what is going on. There's an absusive person behind my life and success, and I want to make sure, I will be safe. Also for context I want to know why do things not go per my intentions? or completely against me - I saw a dead body at 12 was traumatized by that entire episode and had PTSD for 10 years with nightmares and flashes and horrible panic attacks and it was always my dad. as if that suffering wasn't enough, my dad actually died 10 years later into it. Like wasnt that already enough. Now, I saw extreme adversity and told myself i should never be jobless or without money and I am the one who is jobless again as if the delay wasn't enough, the exploitation, low pays, unpaid work wasn't enough. Now, I told my parents about the narcissit in our family and cut myself off, but despite it, I was the one who was affected and they finally succeeded in their plans and pitting my mom against me and using my mom to ruin my life. My mom for whom I came home, quitting my entire life putting myself in danger, has turned completely weird, doesn't care at all about me and wow funny part, she lied - she claimed she was going to die, and she lied. Now, my doctors told her not to take me to the place where CPTSD occurred, and knowing my visa was in process, she did this despite me telling her not to. Now, because of her stupidity it is me, who lost eveyrhting. Despite doing the right things, identifying right things deciding on something, I dont get what I need. My roommates bullied me and said id go back to my home country, I got a job and visa, but here I am, even tho I quit, I lost it all. My boss tried to set me up in a fake setup he tried to create, I ofc dint fall into his trap, but here I am. That was not needed after all the back to back abuse from narc family member, then 3 roommate situations, then the boss and finally lose it. I remember somebody asked content in the previous message so here it is. I genuinely want to know, wtf is even wrong with my chart? I told myself i should never be without money or jobless here I am. I said i should never go to somewhere, and I ended up going there. All my worst nightmares came true. Nothing in my life ever worked the way i planned and worked for. iT IS ABSOLUTELY HORRENDOUS. Please guide me, if I NEED TO do any remedies for my stupid career and other safety things

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job struggles

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27F, asking about career.

I’ve been experiencing prolonged career instability/delays since graduation (~4 years). I am trying to understand the reason for repeated job disruptions and delays and my career not taking off.

Despite multiple opportunities, none have led to stable employment: It is a lot of fight to have something in hand, and i LOSE IT all at once. It kept going on since 2022 Feb

• Offers falling through after confirmation
• Very short job durations (days to a few months)
• Unpaid/underpaid roles
• Roles I had to quit due to external circumstances

Main question:
What factors in my chart indicate persistent career delays and instability? Will I be able to secure stable, long-term employment? When will I get a job or if I need to not pursue jobs at all and try something else?

Chart details (sidereal):

• Capricorn Ascendant
• Saturn (Lagna lord) debilitated in Aries (4th house)
• Sun conjunct Ketu in 1st house
• Rahu in 7th house
• Currently running Rahu Mahadasha

Career and job struggles

Struggling in career post graduation. I genuinely want to know whats a goo time for me to get a jon.

Who even suffers with joblessness for 4 years. I mean I did work but it was on and off, and it never really took off - my career.

Does debilitated Saturn (Lagna lord) in Aries cause career delays and immense suffering? I have struggled to find stable employment for 4 years.

I've experienced unpaid work, low paid, exploitation, and job losses. My career never started and everything else in my life is something I cant even speak of. I would just say immense suffering, people usually only have 1 or 3 problem areas, but this was very weird since past 3 years.

Despite opportunities, none have led to a sustainable, paid position or even a full 6 months of continous paid work.

The first ended after 2 days, the second was verbally confirmed but never materialised, the third was rescinded, and the fourth I quit due to a family emergency within 3 months.

Do I need to change my field or role, or is a job not for me should I start my own business? Also what about the visa situation?

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I want to talk about something uncomfortable: how empathy gets exploited, especially in families.

I’m not saying every parent is like this. But some are, and more people need to acknowledge it.

I spent 14 years fighting CPTSD, abuse, grief, and bullying just to build a stable mind and a functional life. I was finally moving forward. My visa was in process. I had a path to look forward to, finally.

Then my mother told me she was “going to die.” Not once, but repeatedly. Oh, and she didn’t say this to my narcissistic sibling who is in their 30s earning well, has support and all of that, but still makes my mom pay for their education lol but anyways.

Any normal person would go back, especially when they hear this on their dad’s second death anniversary. I did.

It wasn’t true. I burnt my whole life down for a woman who thought I was a problem to be removed, a person to be discarded. SHE RUINED MY LIFE IN AN INSANELY DEHUMANIZING WAY, that cant be shared here or I dont even know how to talk about it maybe. But......

There was no medical emergency. No crisis. No situation at all.

I went through the reports multiple times myself and spoke to two doctors just to make sure, hers wasn't lying as she claims or was wrong.

It was wrong, she was wrong. She lied.

It was all manipulation.

I lost my job, my visa in process, my financial independence that I fought so hard to achieve and the life I had fought for—all in one decision.

For months, I tried to fix things. Help her. Support her. Understand her. Show her the reality of her life and what I was going through.

But here’s the truth I learned the hard way:

You cannot save someone who is willing to destroy you to meet their needs.

Empaths are often expected to over-give, over-sacrifice, and tolerate what others wouldn’t. Boundaries are punished, but kindness is exploited.

I want to tell you this: love does not require self-destruction.

If you don’t have stability, financially, mentally, physically, you cannot take care of anyone else.

You cannot give oxygen to somebody else when you’re fighting to survive and come out alive.

And no, not all parents are safe people.

A real parent does not ask their child to burn their life down to keep them warm or fight their lies and mental storms, that they created.

Some people will never change because they don’t want to. And they know exactly what they’re doing. I have learnt this a miserably hard way.

These are things you can’t easily share with anybody else. It just stays like poison stuck in your throat you can’t spit it out, and you can’t swallow it.

Anyways.

My warning to HSPs, empaths, or just kind and loving kids is this:

Protect your life. Protect your future. Protect your mind.

Because when you’re in danger, nobody will turn up, not even the people who are asking for your destruction.

You are not responsible for choices they had their entire lives to make. You need to be practical, realistic, and rational not emotional.

And from my dad, I knew and learned that real, loving parents would never put their kids in that kind of danger, knowingly or unknowingly. They will want you to choose your life over their pain.

I have so much more to say, but this pain is not something I can share with anybody, nor can I bear it on my own. I just have to live with the consequences and fight through this hellish nightmare of a life and the repercussions of being an “ideal daughter.”

I am so sorry if you have also experienced something similar or are in a stateless situation.

I can’t go back to my old life, and I can’t stay in this environment that gave me CPTSD. My doctor warned them never to bring me back or put me in the same places, and she did—knowingly. And it isn't even normal, like idk what to say. But I might not be able to translate my experiences or emphasise the seriousness enough

She knew I couldn’t and shouldn’t travel, but she did it.

She had people and support resources but lied to me. And I bear the weight of all those lies and hate.

So think and act carefully.

If you have parents like my dad, I bet they would not want you to suffer like this.

So don’t put yourself at risk and jump into the fire. Especially if you are a kid, living far away from home, and have a single parent or both parents that are miserable from their own chaos.

Have a plan if you’re planning on traveling somewhere or relocating but these decisions take years to make, not a single second.