Um…idk
Hey guys, um this seems like the most appropriate place to get some opinions. But I’ve been in a situationship for almost 4 years now. It’s been mainly off and on due to our life choices at that time but unfortunately he had a bad issue at committing to plans. There’s times where we verbally agreed to something and then it’s a no call, no show. In the very beginning I thought I was fine because I knew these types of relationships hold no “obligations” and in reality, I didn’t expect both of us to continue this for as long as we did. We had multiple discussions on how I want to at least be treated as a friend since I felt basic demands of respect was being missed. This month, we made plans to assemble a dresser and to chill. Within 24hrs I was blocked and another two days later after I had to haggle it out, he said he was going through a depressive episode and blocked everyone but his mom. I truly love the connection we had but it is time to let go? I been going back and forth on how to respond because he does carry a copy key to my house but I feel like I just don’t matter. People can make the argument that that’s what all situations end up like idk, i just wanted to at least been seen as someone with some value. Hopefully this is still the right subgroup, maybe I just needed to rant lmao.