My partner wants to die and I don't know what to do
Hello, I'm in a long distance relationship with another individual, we're very open about our feelings, and we try and talk when we get upset at one another.
For a while now, my partner has had depression and doesn't believe that they deserve happiness or love, and don't seem to have an actual reason as to why. They want me to hate them so they can die without hurting anyone. They have thought about different ways to end our relationship so they can die without people caring about them, and have thought about dying a lot
They have told me that they don't think therapy would work, and that they have tried it before, and are very against the idea in general, so therapy is off the table
Now obviously, I want to prevent them leaving me or dying, as much as possible, as each of those would end the same, from my understanding. It eats away at me constantly, and I'm scared that I'll wake up one day, and they won't be there. I feel like I've tried everything, so if anyone has any advice, please help