u/Relative-League1313

Looking for a flat/flatmate (female)

📍 Preferred areas: Gachibowli, Financial District, Kondapur, Madhapur, Nanakramguda, Manikonda, Puppalaguda

👩‍💼 Working professional (Deloitte)

🥗 Vegetarian preferred

🧼 Hygienic & clean environment is a must

🚿 Washroom should have proper fittings (good flush, hand shower, clean setup)

🛏️ Looking for a peaceful and decent flat (no chaotic crowd)

Budget: Open to sharing (depending on flat & occupancy)

If you have any leads or are looking for a flatmate, please DM 🙌

I’m a working professional looking for a flat/room in a shared apartment near the Deloitte office in Hyderabad.

Preferences: vegetarian, non-smoker, and prefer a clean, hygienic, and peaceful living environment. A well-maintained washroom with a proper flush system, working taps & shower, and a health faucet is important.

Please let me know if there’s any availability or leads. Thanks!

Move in date - 26/04/2026

Hi! I’m a working professional looking for a flat/room in a shared apartment near the Deloitte office in Hyderabad.

Preferences: vegetarian, non-smoker, and prefer a clean, hygienic, and peaceful living environment. A well-maintained washroom with a proper flush system, working taps & shower, and a health faucet is important.

Please let me know if there’s any availability or leads. Thanks!

Move in date - 26/04/2026

24F. Is there any concept of " speeding up "(since this person has adhd, he said he will speed up friendship) for friendship. When a guy is already in a relationship and trying to be my friend, fighting with me over silly things and asking for attention. So basically he was trying to get my attention by giving me so much attention that I got overwhelmed and thought he knows what he is doing, he is in a relationship, so he will take care of that. let me be off guard. Whenever I confronted him, he said " I'm speeding up the friendship process, because I dont have thousands of years to live "

I felt overwhelmed by the level of attention and emotional intensity coming from his side, especially considering he was already in a relationship. It didn’t feel like a normal or balanced friendship to me.

There were moments where I felt pressured for time and attention, including being asked to meet despite my clear limitations. I went along initially because I trusted that he would manage his own boundaries, but in hindsight, I felt uncomfortable with how things were unfolding.

The situation became distressing when I was approached aggressively by his partner, even though I had no intention of being involved in anything beyond a basic friendship. That experience left me feeling unfairly targeted and emotionally disturbed. I felt more hurt because I'm always a girls girl and this girl being rude to me.. made me realise how deeply we hate women as a society that she thought of shouting on me instead of shouting at her partner.

Looking back, this dynamic didn’t feel respectful of my comfort or boundaries, and it’s something I would not choose to engage in again.

Even though I hate both of them, but I'm posting this so that I can look back one day without feeling anything about it and maybe I can get some insights about what can I learn from this incident.

Edit : read your comments. thankyou guys for your opinions