u/Really_Mild_Person

My boyfriend and I are still new to the lifestyle, only have gone to 1 party last year. It was a halloween costume swinger party, so it was easy to make up an outfit. Every now and then, we think about going to another party or a club, but it hasn't worked out yet. I'm not a very fashionable person, and I don't think I'm very attractive, mostly because I am short, and I have smaller breasts with a larger stomach area. So, any outfit ideas from either perspective of men and women would be helpful!

I have subbed mostly in the city for the last 4 years. Sometimes, I get anxiety taking attendance because of the unique spellings and pronunciations of student names. I sub K-12, all races, ethnicities, backgrounds, etc, and I am noticing the rise in new names or new spellings of a common name. I am not making fun of names AT ALL. But i have a genuinely curious question: If anyone else has this experience, and also, what are some of the unique names or pronunciations you have encountered that you struggled with?