u/ReadyWeekend5094

Does anyone have any advice on meeting guys? I'm 28M and still not out to my friends, I'm ready to start meeting guys but Would like to remain private and come out on my own terms, personally don't see the need to announce l'm gay out of nowhere.If its asked in conversation if lI'm seeing anyone when lI'm dating someone then yeah l'd mention it!

I'm aware not "coming out" can be hurtful towards anyone I'm seeing and definitely don't want to keep anyone a secret, that's not fair on him. But l'd like to meet someone and get to know him before sharing my dating life with my friends,

Looking for advice or examples on how to meet someone through my situation. Was it Tinder, local events or just meeting randomly?

If you were still in the closet, or not out to many people, how did you meet your partner and begin seeing them if people didn't know you were gay