u/Ready-Emergency8454

I want to send another message after being left on read but it feels so illegal

A week ago I (25M) went to have dinner with a friend, or maybe classmate (31F), after classes and I decided to ask her out, to which she said yes.

For background, we've hung out after classes a few times already and everytime I invite her she always said yes. So she asked where to, and I gave her a place to which she said she'd like to, because she's never been. Then she told me she's free on monday and tuesday, I said I'll let her know tomorrow.

While we were walking back she even brought it up again and told me to message her to let her know.

Well I did, but it she left it on read and I feel so confused. It's obviously almost Saturday now and it feels illegal to even bring it up again.

I only saw her today at school but I was talking to someone else.

To be honest this has happened before when I did it via text. She replied two weeks later saying "sorry I just saw it, when are we going out?". I was not even in the country at that time, she didn't know this.

I feel like I should say something because it totally didn't sound like she was making excuses. At the same time it makes sense to just let it go and save me the embarrassment, but then again what if? Why not say "idk I'm busy" which will be super clear?

I just want to give it one more chance, this is too weird for me to just let go.

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u/Ready-Emergency8454 — 18 hours ago