u/Random-Fox0432

I have been thinking a lot about marriage. The plan is that during the 2 week leave after tech school we will do it. We have been dating for 3 years and 8 months. He is currently at BMT and I can’t talk to him about anything I’m reading. I just want to know if anyone who has experienced this could tell me, when would the best time be? Would it be directly after BMT? Or during tech school? Or after tech school? I just get anxiety about the paperwork and filing for everything, and 2 weeks not being enough time for everything to go through before he gets his first duty station. We both want to be sent there together. And I want to know that the 2 week leave would be enough time to have it solidified according to military regulations.