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When I sh I typically tell my bf about it and it really stresses him out. Part of the reason I sh is BECAUSE I stress people out. In turn I sh again and the cycle continues. Do I stop telling him when I do it?

He has told me in the past that he wants to know when I do it so it’s a bit of a dilemma.

I don’t want him to keep crying over me because I love him but I also don’t want him mad at me for not telling him