u/QuiteSeriouslyNow

Am I wrong to think that restricting a cell phone from an 11year old is ok? Her mom bought the phone so SD can keep in touch with both parents. I have problems with her being on the phone Waaaayyyyy too much but my husband does not want to restrict her from using the phone. He feels she should be able to use the phone whenever she wants. I said after 7pm, she should ask to use the phone and he was uncomfortable with that. He is also uncomfortable making her ask to use the iPad. That one really irks me because children should not have unrestricted access to “toys”. I always made my children ask. We have set this issue aside for the time being. I don’t know if I am being a nazi or control freak or if he is just too laid back?