u/Quickdraw209

Value of Phoenix Date Palm?

Value of Phoenix Date Palm?

In 2017 I bought a package of Medjool dates for Christmas and accidentally got the ones with pits. I had a potted plant nearby, so I pushed one pit into the soil and forgot about it. A few weeks later, a little “rooster tail” sprout appeared. Over the years I’ve kept repotting it as it outgrew each container.

Now in May 2026, I have a very healthy 7-foot Phoenix dactylifera (true date palm). It’s thriving, but the roots have pushed the base of the plant up so far that I can see the thick white roots at the soil line. It’s basically rattling its cage.

I’m in USDA Zone 6B (WV mountains) where winters regularly drop to -9°F or lower. I don’t have the high ceilings or space to keep it protected indoors for 8 months of the year. I’ve been told to offer it to a business, mall, church, or similar place with good light, or to sell it locally. Someone also mentioned date palms are considered invasive in some states, but I haven’t been able to confirm that.

For those familiar with palms: what would a healthy, 7-foot specimen like this realistically sell for in a cold climate? Any advice on selling or rehoming it would be appreciated!

u/Quickdraw209 — 5 days ago

I shot up with 10 units of T106. Had a great evening with a couple buds. Two days later, I had a follow up appointment with my urologist regarding my BPH. He didn’t give me his blessing with Trimix. He wanted to keep pushing Cialis at me and I pushed back. He now knows I went around his prescription pad and directly to Olympia pharmacy. Even though he silently objects, he still checks my boy for any issues or signs of caution. Honestly- I think he’s looking for an opportunity to say, “see I told you so!”

At my appointment I had to get naked and climb in a backless gown, which I despise. When he came in the room I was already hanging pretty heavy since the last couple days. He hiked up the gown and started squeezing the shaft. He asked me when I last injected. I told him two days ago. He gave me a dirty look and said, “That shouldn’t happen!”

Has anyone had a two-day dick resurrection from trimix? It’s happened to me the morning after. I really can’t get a chubby let alone an erection without trimix.

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u/Quickdraw209 — 7 days ago

So last night I was out at a restaurant for dinner and drinks with a mixed group. As we’re leaving, one of the guys from the group pulls me aside and says, “Hey man, you might want to wear a T-shirt under your shirts from now on.”

I was totally confused and asked what the hell he was talking about. He told me all he could see the whole night were my nipples poking through my knit pullover. It was a thin sweater that was a little snug across the chest.

I’ll be real with you guys:

  1. I’ve always been a nipple puller when I jerk off — have been since I was a teenager.
  2. They’re not huge, but they’re prominent, and yeah, I know they show through tighter or thinner shirts.

Honestly? I find a man’s visible nipples flattering and kind of erotic. To me they’re a symbol of masculinity. So getting called out like that honestly pissed me off. It’s not like my dick was hanging out. Women walk around in super low-cut tops with half their boobs on display and nobody bats an eye. I had no idea a man’s nipples showing through clothing was some kind of social violation.

Am I in the wrong here? Curious what you all think.

*** Thanks to all those who have taken the time to share, comment, and offer your opinion whether good, bad, or indifferent. For those who just decided to take advantage and join the jerk by cheering him on or calling me an AI Bot- sucks to be you. You only confirmed you're no better off than the rest...and I blocked your account. =) ***

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u/Quickdraw209 — 8 days ago

Last November (2025) my gay grandson told me he got accepted to a university literally down the road from me. He was living 12 hours away with his dad, and the jump in tuition + housing was going to be rough. So I offered to let him stay with me during the school year. I even told him he could host guys he meets as long as he follows my only real rules: no drugs and no crazy drinking. No curfew.

It’s been mostly great… but it’s definitely shifted my own comfort level in my house. I’ve been trying to schedule my own hookups around his class/work/evening plans so everything stays behind closed doors. He’s already figured me out (I’m sure of it), but we’ve never actually talked about it. My son already knew I’m gay and had warned me his son is gay too, so none of that was a surprise and I had zero issue with it.

Now I’m wondering: do I just keep living my normal gay life and stay discreet while he’s around? Or should I only do stuff when he’s definitely not home? There have already been a couple nights where I could clearly hear his “activity” when he had a guy over. It feels weirdly mutual now and I’m not sure how to handle it.

Guys over 30 (especially any grandpas or dads in similar spots), how would you play this? Am I overthinking it?

Thanks —
Stressed Papi

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u/Quickdraw209 — 11 days ago

Last night I was invited to a “brothers pool party.” It’s a typical outing my marine brothers.pull together and hang out. Most of us wear fitted swim briefs or speedos. We’re all well built in the basket, but there is an underlying drive that you have to sport the best bulge. I cheated a little and shot up with a couple units before I left the house and I took a couple prefilled syringes with me to keep my dick topped off. I got one discreet comment asking what had me all worked up. Moral of the story: I love my T106 and being able to top my brothers any way and any time I can.

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u/Quickdraw209 — 13 days ago