u/Qelesis

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How do you ask for sex in a relationship without feeling like a creep?

First of all, I just wanna preface this by saying I had no idea how to phrase this question without sounding weird, so I wanna clarify this is genuinely coming from a place of curiosity

I (20m) matched with a girl (20f) on a dating app about a month ago, we've been talking and going on a bunch of dates since then and agreed to be exclusive

Thing is, this is my first relationship ever, so I have no sexual experience and as such I dont know how to escalate things intimately, like the idea of sex is so foreign to me I dont even know where to start

Just the idea of me trying to ask for sex just makes me feel like a creep and I dont know why I feel this way

I dont wanna ask my friends because this seems too personal and awkward for me so id rather just ask the strangers of the internet

Thank you for reading

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u/Qelesis — 18 hours ago