u/Puzzleheaded_Dig6111

would someone take it in wrong way if i marry for visa and how to find someone for nikah

i tried my apps like muzz and others . i am serious about naikah and there are many reasons behind it , mainly because my dad passed away and i am in a country where he had only 5 months to get pr but since is is gone we are stuck here but we had plan to live here forever soo we sold everything in our home country soo i dont wanna go back there it will be very hard almost like coming to streets . i have work experience in like delivery jobs and im very very young not underage just one 1 year more and i was looking for nikah for this and also i feel after all this hardship i am prepared to it to take care and everything soo i used this app and looks for in these websites , social media but nothing worked , i even posted in instagram, no views in that post , i am doing this after a year of hardship . any suggestions where to look for ?

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u/Puzzleheaded_Dig6111 — 3 days ago

Im very embarrassed to post like this but im out of options . im 19 years old Muslim in Hong Kong

Hello i’m indian we have hong kong id card not permanent , my dad worked as an employee visa in hong kong for 6 .5 years and only 5 months he would be permanent but he passed away 🥲. since he is gone , the government is not giving us visa anymore , we don’t know what to do , she is also she asked me if i want to marry someone because she wants to raise my kids , and i feel this is the right time for marriage , im 19 , im really overweight because i was only kid and my dad and mom spoiled me a lot , but i used to work foodpanda part time after school and had good earning , i want to marry someone in hong kong or Saudi Arab or Qatar or Kuwait or any country thats not racist to muslim and start a family , im a kind and really really caring person like my dad , he never raised voice in front of my mom and he took care of her whole life , i believe i will be same and whoever i will marry i will take care of her in every way possible . about myself im born in india , muslim , i read daily 5 prayers + tahhajjut , i do it daily i have a habit now about the weight i lost 11 kg already but i will be like average soon in sha aallah i was 128 kg now im 115 a, and im losing more . im looking for simple nikah , a small family , very islamic environment , i just want her to be loyal and listening , i have no other requirements as Quran says men are protectors of women’s i will protect her , take care of her in every way possible , just like my dad took care of my mom

and yes for my details ,

Gender - Male

Age - 19 ,

Height 168 cm ,

weight i said ,

Personality - im shy , calm and like to play video games a lot ,

work - i do foodpanda part time after school , but i have plan to be a uber driver or gogovan in future

Religion- Islam Alhamdulillah , ummah of prophet Muhammas s.a.w

Martial status - i am never married not had a girlfriend . and i put my glaze down whenever a girl passes by , i dont have female friends

Langauge - Bengali, English , Urdu

Scholars i follow - There are many like Zakir naik , Ahmed Deedat , The muslim lantern , Smile2jannah , Alidawah many many more

Hobbies - i give dawah not professional but yea i do ,i used to draw before not now , play video games , sit on parks alone for worship

also if i marry here i never want to go back india , i will stay in that country and the nationality of the partner i marry

you can contract me on instagram - wohooi_94 , not my main account because im too embarrassed to use my main

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u/Puzzleheaded_Dig6111 — 4 days ago