Should I dump him?
Hey, so me (F20) have been together with my boyfriend (M20) for 5 months now. The way we met was on this troll Discord server, and I kinda just liked him. I found out we live in the same country and state, so we scheduled to meet, and we’ve been seeing each other every week and hanging out and stuff.
He’s been really sweet to me. He’s kinda freaky, but I never really questioned it because I used to be the freaky one in my past relationships. Anyways, I joined the troll server again because I wanted some advice. My boyfriend went to a party with girls, and he didn’t want to call or let me hear his voice after he came back. He says he doesn’t drink, but he was texting weird and just overall didn’t want to talk.
So I asked these two girls, and they asked me what his name was in case they knew him. I said his name, and they told me he was known for being a really weird like, very sexual. He had his dick as his profile picture, was touching himself on call with a girl, and after she didn’t want to be sexual with him, he cussed her out and called her all types of things. I also found out this happened before we got together.
I texted him that we were done right after that because that’s hella weird to me. But he told me he hasn’t texted anybody since we got together, and every time I check his phone, it’s always clear. I don’t know I just feel like dating somebody with a past like that is weird. Like, if he’s like that, how is he when he isn’t with me and is around other girls?
I don’t know. Sorry, I know this is super long, but I’ve just been thinking about this for like 4 hours now.