Should I leave?
My bf treats me like a nascar pit stop. He doesn’t prioritize me or our time together. He knew I had a 3 day wknd for Easter. I told him not to work so we could spend time together and have Easter dinner. He impulsively decides to sell his car on Thursday. He then needs to buy a new car before Monday. He wants me to drive him to another city 4.5 hours away on Saturday. I tell him that this was his plan all along without even asking me. I told him I didn’t want to be his first choice for this drive. He finds a ride share to go get the new car. He also doesn’t sleep at all. He goes to the city in the ride share, buys new car and drives back. He stops at my house so I can drive him to work since he doesn’t want to drive his new car. He finishes work at 11pm. He told me he would take the train home. He goes out with a friend for drinks and gets home at 2am. He wakes me up. He snores and I wake him up 3 times. I tell him to put on a breath right strip. I put a breath right strip on him. He takes the breath right strip off in the night. I end up sleeping on the couch. I feel that he is selfish and there was no point in him even coming over this weekend. We spent no quality time together. He also said he would be DND for Sunday but his phone was ringing and dinging in the night waking me up.
Would you put up with this? He often prioritizes his free time over spending quality time with me. We recently had a pregnancy / miscarriage. He didn’t get me any treat / flowers for Easter. It’s a fairly new relationship and it’s making me not feel good. Am I overreacting?