Would you date a single mom with bad kids? And she expects you to pay for almost everything?
Would you date and then support and move in with a pessimistic woman whose kids often or mostly misbehave?
My ex told me when she left she's going to easily find a single dad and rubbed it in my face saying you guys would understand kids more etc. and you'd be more willing to step up and help with the 3 kids and pay for everything including rent or car and phone payments.
I helped this single mom with her kids but eventually was only allowed to buy them food and video games and not discipline them. I could take them places but not tell them how to behave in my car.
I helped this woman start a cleaning business. I helped her a little with her mindset which was very negative and still is. And I was very helpful with the kids. They are actually all very loving and kind to me, but still misbehave for others. Being a child of a single mother myself I knew what it took to be a good stepdad. The kids saw it even if the mom didnt.
She left me and said she wants a single dad and that you guys are more likely to step up and take care of her the way she needs.
Would you be willing to take on a woman and three kids and pay for everything, house, cars, etc if the woman was extremely negative and the kids always misbehaved?